PLATYPUS POST, Number 11, October 2004
A regular publication of Platypus Media, an independent publisher of books for families, teachers and parenting professionals.
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INSIDE THIS ISSUE:
DIA'S DIARY: Not a problem" IS a problem for me!
Fall can be a busy time for many families as new schools, new friends and new routines replace the less-scheduled days of summer. The crisp, cool days, with the hours of sunlight diminishing, mark the transition of moving inside and hunkering down.
For Jewish families, fall is even busier as an abundance of holidays take place in autumn. This holiday season begins with the High Holidays, also called the Days of Awe. This is the time Jews mark their New Year and think about the year past and the year to come. We use the time to consider God's greatness and kindness, to think about the good choices made and choices regretted, to ask for forgiveness from those we have wronged, and to pray for a sweet new year. Then, Sukkot, or the Jewish thanksgiving, is a time to celebrate the rich soil and plentiful rain that helps put food on our table. Then comes Simchat Torah, one of the happiest holidays of the year, where we mark the completion of the year's reading of the Torah and we begin the cycle once again. Whether it is being grateful for another year, grateful for our health, or grateful for the abundance around us, this is a time of year when Jews spend a lot of time feeling thankful.
Why do I bring this up? Because it makes me think about a subtle transition that has occurred in our society. The fall holidays are, in many ways, about saying thank you. I was taught that when one says thank you, the appropriate response is you're welcome. And therein lies the problem - you're welcome has become antiquated. Every day -- in all manner of settings -- you're welcome has been replaced with not a problem.
Not a problem - is a problem for me. When I hear this, I have to keep my mouth shut because I want to shout out "Who was talking about problems? We weren't talking about problems or the absence or abundance of them - we were discussing being thankful!"
"You're welcome" is the thankee acknowledging the thanker - it says, "I heard you and I appreciate your sentiment." "Not a problem" merely states that you have not done anything that creates a problem… yet. I know that when I hear you're welcome, I feel pleased and that when I hear ot a problem, I feel irritated.
In Spanish, the typical response to gracias is de nada, or "it's nothing." In Chinese, xie xie is followed by bu keqi (literally, "don't be polite"). The dictionary tells us that thanks is a way of expressing gratitude and that alternatives for you're welcome include "don't mention it," "no thanks are needed,&qtuot; and "I was glad to do it." All of these are acknowledging statements. They don't assume that there was a problem or even a potential problem.
I'm not sure there can be enough gratitude in the world. Gratitude should be encouraged - and acknowledged. Next time someone says thank you, tell that person you're welcome. After all, erring on the side of excess in the matter of courtesy is not a problem!
Thanks for listening!
OCTOBER IS NATIONAL BOOK MONTH
The National Book Foundation has declared October National Book Month. With the slogan "Pledge Allegiance to Knowledge," numerous book festivals are being held around the country this month. If you are anywhere near Austin, TX, Charlotte, NC, Charleston, WV, Houston, TX, Las Vegas, NV, Madison, WI or Nashville, TN, there is a festival near you. Throughout the fall, other cities will also host festivals. Here in Washington, DC, we are looking forward to the 4th annual National Book Festival hosted by The Library of Congress and First Lady Laura Bush featuring over 70 authors, illustrators, and poets.
To learn more about various book festivals, visit www.nationalbook.org. To learn more about the National Book Festival, visit www.loc.gov/bookfest.
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CUSTOMER CONNECTION: Snugglepus: the perfect baby shower gift
One of the best things about working in the Platypus Media office is getting to talk to our customers. It is always a treat when someone calls and tells us how they heard about us and what they are going to do with our products. We thought we'd feature some of these stories in this and future editions of Platypus Post.
This month, we had the pleasure of not only talking to one of our repeat customers, but of getting to meet him as well! It seems that Pat, a thirty-something-year-old man, had been invited to a baby shower a few months ago. Finding this position a bit awkward, he searched his mind for a unique gift - one that symbolized motherhood, that the mother-to-be wouldn't already have, and that would be fun and a bit idiosyncratic, in short, something that would stand out among normal baby shower gifts. As he tells it, "I began searching the web for stuffed platypuses. There weren't that many out there, but there was no question that you guys had the nicest one on the market." He bought one, along with the book, If My Mom Were a Platypus, and much to Pat's delight, the gift was a huge success - so successful that several of the shower guests made him promise that if they had a baby shower, he would give them a Snugglepus to call their own. Well, thanks to the fertility among Pat's friends, he has now purchased four Snugglepuses, and assures us that each one was the hit of the party. "I wouldn't dream of showing up without one," confides Pat, "it's become my signature gift."
Pat stopped by the other day to pick up his latest Snugglepus and to say Hello. Thanks, Pat, for sharing your story with us!
JUST FOR LAUGHS: See if you can answer these...
FUN AT HOME OR SCHOOL: 25 Ways to Say Hello
Humans, whatever their culture, learn the language they grow up hearing. There are thousands of different languages spoken by humans. Each one has different sounds, different alphabets, but all are designed to help us communicate. To get you started on communicating with others, here are 25 ways to say Hello:
| Arabic - | Al Salaam a'aalaykum | Indonesian - | Selamat pagi | |
| Bengali - | Ei Je | Italian - | Buon giorno | |
| Chinese - | Ne hao | Japanese - | Konichiwa | |
| Croatian - | Bok | Mohawk - | Sekoh | |
| Czech - | Nazdar | Portuguese - | Bom dia | |
| French - | Bonjour | Spanish - | Hola | |
| German - | Guten Tag | Swahili - | Jambo | |
| Greek - | Kalimera | Tahitian - | Iaorana | |
| Hawaiian - | Aloha | Turkish - | Merhaba | |
| Hebrew - | Shalom | Ukraninian - | Vitayu | |
| Hmong - | Nyobzoo | Vietnamese - | Chao ong | |
| Irish - | La dhuit | Welsh - | Bore da |
It is also fun to explore non-verbal forms of communication as well. What types of things can we say to one another without any words at all? Compare to how animals communicate.
This activity is found in the If My Mom Were a Platypus Activity Guide. Each Platypus Media children's book has a teacher-written Activity Guide. These are available at no charge. Just download the Guide(s) of your choice at www.PlatypusMedia.com.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...
Reviews by Perinatal Education Associates, September 2004. For more information, visit www.BirthSource.com.
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